Roller coasters are fun!!

I think its a terrible thing to say that life lately has been a roller coaster or ever is because roller coasters are a blast!! When life has its ups and downs its a mere part of living..something like living in California.There are bound to be earthquakes that cause you to stumble, and then there are some that are ground breaking and turn your world upside down! We all weather our own storms and learn to cope with the changes. Lately I've been having my migraines which keep me from eating properly, sleeping and exercising but thats no excuse not to pick myself up on good days and work my butt off to make it better! Today is a decent day but unfortunately traffic caused me to only get in 15 mins at the gym and unfortunately I'm baking today and who could resist my baking??! Yesterday I made white bean cupcakes!! Today I made apple, banana, zucchini muffins!! Awesome!!! So today life is a roller coaster, bc I'm having a blast!! :)  Who knows what tomorrow brings..hopefully clear skies and stable ground!

Cooking, baking, wine...

So everyone knows I love to cook. I love baking too. Yesterday I made black bean brownies..they have more of a texture of almost a fudge but they are amazing!! I love a good glass of red wine, especially with company. Today I've been reading through recipes and it has just been a perfect day! I woke up this morning and went for a run, showered, came to work, did my weigh in :)  Was happy to see I'm still holding at my old goal and looking forward to reaching my new goal. I love finding recipes that give me ideas for new recipes rather than trying tried and true ones. I can't wait for the day I get to come home from work and cook for a man and potentially one day kids too :)  I love making people happy with my food. People have often asked why I don't go to school to be a chef. Its not that I haven't thought of it but I don't necessarily like the hours. My dream would be to open a breakfast/lunch place similar to that of my Coffee Shop in Gilbert. I would def expand more upon the menu they have and make it my own. Maybe in a few years when I finish school and have built up some equity and a business plan I can take that adventure. But for now I'm focusing on building up my education and life experience. I'm going to keep trying new recipes and ideas and research more into starting a company. I research and educate myself as much as I can on things before I take the plunge. Hopefully I'm not over thinking this and missing out on an experience. If anyone has cook books they don't use or need or want please let me know, I'd love to take them off your hands. Thank you for the support no matter what I have decided to do in my life!! Love you!

Veni, vidi, vi...c...i...

Ok so I'm definitely working on the conquered part..its not so much that I failed but lets be honest..life is not over :) Its a daily battle for all of us! We all work as hard as we can, we all fight for what we want, we all  struggle on a daily basis with  both the big and little things. Luckily we have our friends, family and of course ourselves! We won't always have people to help pull us up off the ground, so we need to take everyday to build upon our strengths and make our weaknesses become new strengths. Take each day as life lesson in love, education, health, and all around wellness. Of course you will have days, weeks and even months that knock you around and cause you to lose footing, but you can immediately stand up, dust yourself off and move forward. Tomorrow is my new day to dust myself off and get stronger! So with that being said, I need to get some rest for my next big day! Back to work, time to focus on school, my health and wellness.

Love hurts

Thats what I see every time I turn on my car..I programed it into my car screen. But its true.. good or bad. Love hurts. I can be an amazing hurt or a hurt that changes you and makes you have to work hard to pull yourself out of the pain. Its such an awesome thing that an emotion can feel so physical. Except when its the numbing pain of love. Memories always make me smile. I'm one to let go of the bad, even if there was a lot more bad than good. Songs are actually what makes me feel the pain. I spend far too much time listening to songs of heartbreak and sadness. But its all part of healing and being able to move on. Feeling whatever it is you have to, facing it head on. Burying it was never a good thing. I want to be the best version of myself this year. I have to stay healthy, happy, and strong to be able to move on for myself. I want to smile and feel that awesome pain of love again!

Back to class....

My biggest fears in life have always been abandonment, letting go of people, and failure. So I did everything I could as a young adult to prevent those things from happening. Leaving before I was left and building up a wall so not to get to close to people, not letting go of people even after they became toxic--I know those seem kind of contradicting but don't expect me to understand my ways...bc even I don't understand it. And finally not putting myself out there so I couldn't fail..I was just coasting.Well it wasn't just the new year that brought on change. I've been trying to fix my downfalls for well over a year. Its definitely a process, not an easy one to change who you had become. But I too well that anything great in life doesn't come easy! So here's to my year of trying hard to correct my mistakes. I stopped going to school because I wasn't the direction I wanted to head and I didn't want to waste time and money. But I also was afraid that I would fail. I don't handle rejection well, as many other people don't but I was thinking only of myself. I was letting myself and a lot of other people who cared about me down. I can't be selfish anymore. I have to grow up. Someday I'll be a wife and eventually a mother so I have to remember that as much as I am important I won't always be the only person I need to take care of. So tonight at 710mtn time I go back to school FULL TIME! Its kinda scary and sad because most people I told I was taking 15 credit hrs including internet classes said wow good luck! They don't have much faith in me! :(   Kinda sad..but instead of like in the past, I'm going to use this to prove them wrong. Its my goal to get the best grades I've ever gotten. Not only for me but those who stand by my side and constantly support me!! Love you so much Grandma and Aunt Margie!! You guys are my greatest support!! xxxooo

New Year..doesn't mean better

Ok so of course we would all love for the new year to mean a clean slate, a fresh start, a chance to make a new name for ourselves but its just not the case.You actually have opportunity to start over every single day. After every decision you make, you can chose to make new choices. You cannot change or forget your past. It will always follow you but if you make your future brighter it won't seem so ugly. Positive attitude and positive outlook usually brings about good things for you. This year is a roller coaster thus far for me. Just when I think I have it all..my world seems to spiral back down again. I'm doing my best not to let it keep me down. And I will opt to make better choices today. All the best in 2012.

Regrets

I will always have regrets but it will be my successes that define me.
So often we go through life making mistakes, wishing we could take it back or fix what we broke. Just because I made mistakes in the past, that doesn't mean that is who I am. I'm not perfect but as long as I try my best to correct my mistakes I am constantly moving closer to my own perfection.Love me through it all because I a stronger with you than I am alone! Here's to those who have struck by me even when I disappointed you. I will be greater because you stuck by my side! I'm sorry for having failed or hurt you, I hope you can forgive me. Though I will learn to forgive myself for those who cannot forgive me. I will hold onto the good memories we had and learn to move forward. I love you forever!!

To Love

Ok so in leu of my parents anniversary I think I really owe a blog to love. I'm usually quite the cynic..for plenty of reasons. Failed relationships and utterly horrible dates come to mind. I haven't always been the greatest girlfriend either but I have definitely learned from my mistakes and even made my apologies to those I hurt along the way. I know what I want and what to avoid...or so I think. I try not to have a type because no one wants to date the same people over and over, especially if it didn't work out before. I like change and excitement! Trust, communication, and consistency are definitely the building blocks to a strong relationship. I want to make sure I always express my appreciation for every little tiny thing that someone does for me. A simple thank you and smile are definitely ways to get that across that are often completely left out! Please remember to always let them know your thinking about them, that you respect them and care about what makes them tick. Laugh off the weird, smile when you think they couldn't be any cuter and hold them at the thought of losing them! Always kiss me good morning and good night! Life isn't a fairy tale, so don't too much pressure on it.
 Always do your best to make your partner happy and appreciated. Put in your best effort so that even if it fails you knew you did the best you could to make it work! So here's to love.. to finding it, keeping it, building it, and marrying it :)